Saturday 4 April 2015

People usually tell us that the one meant for you will always approve everything you do. 

So we keep on falling down and getting up expecting someone who will absolutely agree in everything we say, think and do. What people don't know is that such sentence is a limiting belief which sets us to fail.
I believe that everything is possible in Love (based on real love and not ego - where someone has to correspond to your own expectations). I also believe that in a relationship both parts have to surrender somehow and get a balance. Probably it annoys you something your love one does and most probably you do something that makes him/her uncomfortable too! 
Getting a balance is more than essential, is vital for the relationship. 
Believe that you two can enter a safety zone without compromising your own identity! 
Maybe you can avoid doing something if it is not important to you and maybe the other part can do the same. 

I have been trying to understand this dynamic in relationships and particularly till which line you can actually drop something for the relationship's health. Some will say: you should not drop anything for anyone whilst others will offer you a caring and loving approach with which I agree: nothing is black and white. If you are committed to make it work with your soulmate/partner there will always be something you two disagree and don't like about each other's habits. As long as you are not letting go of something that is important to you, as long as the thing you are giving up is something which won't compromise your own soul then maybe you should give it a try, with love!

Above all, your heart will always know the answers. We just need to silent the mind/ego.


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