Friends

One of the most important things in my life are my friends..

what defines a good friendship? Oh, we all know that in the middle of our journey we will have a discussion or we won't like something. For me, It's absolutely normal.

All kind of relations are like a game. I send you the ball, you receive and decide how do you want to send me back. Then, you send the ball and I receive and decide how I want to send it back...

The responsibility of a friendship (and other kind of relationship) is shared between 2 persons... You just can play "the game of communication" with another person.

But, what defines a good friendship? Well, in my point of view I already had some discussions with friends that are really my friends and when we have a problem with something which we didn't like, we sit down and talk about it. If you don't say "I didn't like this" then anything will change. If you don't discuss it to improve your friendship (because communication it's necessary) then it's because you assume that that friendship doesn't worth... and it's up to you.

All discussions or bad moments that I had with my friends I decided to sit down and discuss about "what's wrong/what I/you didn't like" and we resolved the "problem", because, I consider that in a friendship and all relations we need to communicate!

Without communication there isn't any kind of relation.

Friendships can be better if you communicate.

If we don't communicate... then... what it's left? if you don't show what it's wrong your friend can't guess. And this is valid for all relationships.

I'm not trying to convince anyone about this. I'm just expressing my opinion about communication and relationships in general.